vs 11 is so true. Children are always trying to make their way and make themselves known in society, school, church, and in the family. Sometimes the view of what the parents are doing is skewed in their brain thinking that they aren't making their own decisions. It takes some convincing that they really are being allowed to make their own decisions.
vs 22. This is a good verse we need to remember that paying back evil for evil is not what God calls us to do.